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Haley Harmer, LPC

  • Experience11 years
  • LocationOklahoma
  • Focus areasStress and Anxiety, Relationship, and Family
  • Therapy approachesInternal Family Systems and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
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About Haley

Haley Harmer is an Oklahoma licensed professional counselor (LPC) with 11 years of clinical experience supporting people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family difficulties, addiction, grief, and a wide range of other concerns.

Background and approach

She draws on a broad clinical background that includes work with children, youth, and families while also welcoming adults with varied needs. Haley’s practice emphasizes respect, empathy, and a compassionate manner that aims to help clients feel heard and understood.

Her approach blends practical, evidence-informed tools with a client-centered stance, tailoring treatment to each person's circumstances rather than using a one-size-fits-all model. Haley uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and trauma-focused strategies alongside client-centered care, and she incorporates Internal Family Systems work and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in ways that fit the client’s goals.

Her treatment planning focuses on helping people build strengths, improve communication and boundaries, manage emotions, and move through life changes with greater clarity and resilience. Haley invites clients who are ready to take steps toward change to begin by selecting a start option and completing a short matching questionnaire.

She uses a subscription model for sessions and offers multiple online formats to accommodate different schedules and preferences.

Integrating evidence-based approaches in online therapy

Haley draws from Internal Family Systems and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients explore internal parts and live in line with their values. Internal Family Systems invites people to notice and understand different inner parts and the roles they play, which can be useful for trauma, anxiety, and relationship patterns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy focuses on clarifying values and building psychological flexibility, helping clients cope with difficult thoughts and move toward meaningful action.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Haley works with each person to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences, adjusting the mix of strategies over time so treatment remains practical and relevant to the client's life.

Online therapy with Haley is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to accommodate different schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to maintain consistency, access care from home, and choose a communication style that supports ongoing progress.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Haley help with?
Haley works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and family problems, grief, parenting concerns, ADHD, and body image or eating-related struggles.
What is Haley's therapeutic style like?
Her style is warm, inviting, and understanding, focused on respect, empathy, and tailoring treatment to each person’s needs rather than following a fixed protocol.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Haley has 11 years of experience providing therapy in a variety of settings, with substantial work involving children, youth, and families as well as individual adults.
What credentials and location are on record?
She is an LPC licensed in Oklahoma with license number OK LPC LPC06873 and practices from that state.
Does she work in other languages or accept international clients?
Sessions are offered in English only and Haley is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available?
Haley offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexible ways to connect.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy with Haley?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to her availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma

Languages

English