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Scott Heider, LCSW

  • Experience15 years
  • LocationNew York
  • Focus areasStress and Anxiety, Addictions, and Grief
  • Therapy approachesInternal Family Systems and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
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About Scott

Scott Heider, LCSW, brings 15 years of clinical experience to his practice in New York, working with people facing depression, anxiety, stress, addiction, grief, trauma, and relationship concerns.

Background and approach

He blends practical skills with empathic listening to help clients navigate life changes, cope with persistent symptoms, and address issues such as intimacy, parenting, anger, and career challenges. He also supports those dealing with ADHD, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigue, and other co-occurring concerns.

His style is warm and collaborative, emphasizing self-understanding and growth. He uses evidence-informed methods to improve communication, reduce isolation, and help clients reconnect with purpose.

Scott’s practice offers structured strategies alongside reflective exploration so clients can develop healthier habits, strengthen self-esteem, and manage difficult emotions. Sessions are available through multiple remote formats to accommodate different schedules and preferences.

Scott maintains professional standards as an LCSW licensed in New York (NY LCSW 089953) and approaches each client with respect, clarity, and practical tools tailored to their needs.

Integrating therapeutic approaches for online care

Scott often works from Internal Family Systems to help people notice different parts within themselves, understand their roles, and foster internal collaboration for greater emotional balance. IFS can be particularly helpful for processing trauma, managing internal conflict, and reducing self-criticism. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is used to clarify values and build psychological flexibility, guiding clients to take committed action even when difficult thoughts or feelings are present. ACT is well suited to anxiety, depression, and life transitions where values-based change is the goal. Client-Centered Therapy underpins his approach by prioritizing empathic listening, validation, and a nonjudgmental therapeutic relationship to support clients as they find their own solutions.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the therapeutic process, and the therapist collaborates with each client to determine what methods fit their goals, preferences, and current challenges. This collaborative exploration helps shape a plan that balances skills training, reflective work, and practical coping strategies.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, making it easier to access care around work, family, and other commitments. These formats allow ongoing skill practice, timely check-ins, and consistent momentum between sessions while accommodating different communication preferences and schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Scott commonly address?
Scott works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship challenges, and intimacy-related issues.
What is his therapeutic style and approach?
He blends empathic, client-centered support with structured techniques from approaches like IFS, ACT, CBT, and DBT to tailor care to each person's needs.
How long has he been practicing clinically?
Scott has 15 years of experience providing therapy and coaching to adults facing a variety of life and mental health challenges.
Where is he licensed to practice and what are his credentials?
He is a licensed clinical social worker with the credential NY LCSW 089953 and practices from New York.
Can nonlocal or international clients book sessions with him?
International clients are not currently accepted; he provides services to clients consistent with his New York licensing and availability.
What session formats are available for online work?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different preferences and needs.
How are fees and subscriptions handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSmoking / vaping cessationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English