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Diane Kato, LMFT

  • Experience23 years
  • LocationCalifornia
  • Focus areasStress and Anxiety, Relationship, and Family
  • Therapy approachesInternal Family Systems and Attachment-Based Therapy
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About Diane

Diane Kato draws on a 23-year career as a licensed marriage and family therapist to guide people through stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, family conflict, trauma, and self-esteem concerns.

Background and approach

She blends a strengths-based, person-centered stance with practical tools, helping clients explore patterns that keep them stuck while building clearer steps forward. Diane's work emphasizes respectful curiosity and collaboration as she helps clients reconnect with their values and sense of purpose.

Her practice also addresses related challenges such as abandonment and attachment issues, caregiver stress, communication difficulties, divorce and separation, grief and hospice concerns, and the impacts of prejudice and multicultural stressors. Diane combines evidence-informed techniques like cognitive behavioral strategies and dialectical skills with relational approaches rooted in attachment work and Internal Family Systems.

She frames therapy as a flexible, creative process and aims to accompany clients through transitions toward greater clarity and resilience.

Integrating relational approaches with online therapy

Internal Family Systems invites exploration of the different parts that make up a person's inner life, helping people notice internal conflicts and restore balance between self-led curiosity and protective parts. This method can be useful for addressing trauma responses, entrenched patterns, and emotional reactivity. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early and current relationships shape expectations and emotional safety, supporting change in communication, intimacy, and trust within relationships.

Diane approaches finding the right therapeutic fit as a collaborative process. She uses a person-centered stance while drawing from these approaches and others to tailor work to each client's goals and preferences. Together the therapist and client review what resonates and adapt tools and pacing as needs evolve.

Online sessions with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging offer flexibility for scheduling and make it easier to maintain continuity during life changes. These formats allow clients to access relational and skills-based work from home or other convenient settings, and they support a range of interaction styles from real-time conversation to ongoing written reflections.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Diane address in therapy?
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, and self-esteem difficulties. Additional focus areas include attachment and abandonment issues, caregiving stress, communication problems, and grief related to hospice and end-of-life situations.
Which therapeutic approaches inform her style?
The approach is collaborative and strengths-based, drawing on Internal Family Systems, attachment-focused work, client-centered principles, CBT, and DBT techniques to tailor interventions to each person's needs.
How long has she been practicing?
She has 23 years of professional experience working as a licensed marriage and family therapist in clinical settings and therapy practice.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with the California license CA LMFT 42946 and practices in California.
Can sessions be conducted in languages other than English?
Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently accepting international clients.
What formats are available for sessions?
Clients may meet by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to the listed session formats.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; services are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule appointments based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

23+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English